Ownership of the qualities of the other

More than material goods, these are moral qualities, far more difficult to steal, that seeks to appropriate the perverse joy of living, sensitivity, communication skills, creativity, musical and literary gifts ... Thus, when the partner makes an idea, the pervert takes it and makes it his own. If it was not literally blinded by hatred, he might, in an exchange relationship, learn how to acquire a few of the qualities he wanted. But this would require a modesty that by definition it does not. The narcissistic pervert also seek to capture the passions of the other to the extent that they are passionate about the other or, more precisely, they are interested in the other because the other holder is something that would excite the . We see shots and have heart, then release and brutal "final." The entourage then understand how bad a person can be praised to the skies one day and then demolished the next day. The narcissistic pervert feel like a very intense with respect to those that seem to have the things they do not or simply take pleasure in their lives. This desire of appropriation can be social as to attract a partner who leads them in an environment they envy, upper class, middle intellectual or artistic ... profit they expect is to have a tenure that them access to power. They will then proceed to tenure, seeking to destroy her self esteem and confidence, to raise their eyes to their own value.